He Doesn’t Care

So many brides-to-be complain that their fiancé just isn’t interested in the wedding plans. “Whatever you want, honey,” becomes a typical answer when she seeks his input on the details. And that often makes her feel disengaged and frustrated. So what’s a woman to do?
First, consider your attitude about those plans. Are you so stressed that you cause your future husband to feel stressed too? Is it possible you get a little pushy so much so that he wants to push back—or seems to bow out? Do you exude an anxious heart that tends to make him nervous? Often, in the stress of planning, a woman can feel all these emotions and more.
Talk about your concerns with your future mate. Tell him how you really want him to be a part of the planning, and then together, make plans to tackle all the details in a fun way. Maybe you make a date to look at flowers and another to check out the church. Make it fun, and you’ll get your man onboard.

For indepth information on these subjects and more, read Countdown for Couples: Preparing for the Adventure of Marriage.